Rather than seeing trust as the base substrate on top of which everything else gets built, modern structures view trust as an inconvenience and an afterthought, something to craft through contracts, or something to patiently wait for rather than intentionally curate; modern technology views trust as an algorithmic and cryptographic issue rather than a complex, embodied network of nervous systems with generational history.
Our culture is not one of relational resilience but of marginal reserves: relational capacity gets built in amounts just barely sufficient, and is hurriedly sought when collaborative structures begin to break down, whether in teams, communities, or intimate partnerships.
Yet, in spaces of relational surplus, we not only work better; we become better. With relational surplus in our relationships to ourselves and others, we create space to listen, speak, and rest. With relational surplus in our relationships to property and commons, we share, and we create conditions for material abundance. With relational surplus in our relationships to time, space, and possibility, we are free to imagine new worlds and begin to bring them into life; and with relational surplus in our relationship to technology, we are free to steward it towards empowerment rather than extraction, away from planetary crises towards collectively created futures.